AI Companion Privacy & Safety Index
Most “best AI girlfriend” lists recycle each other's claims. This index covers companion and character-chat apps only, and publishes nothing we couldn't verify against official sources — with the date we checked, and “not published” where a vendor hides the number.


33
live apps verified against official sources
24/32
paid apps hide pricing until signup
28/33
publish a findable privacy policy
9
document self-serve account deletion
Key Findings
The Fine Print, Quantified
Six findings computed from this index's own verification passes — every number traceable to a vendor page or policy document checked on the date shown in the table.
24 of 32
paid companion apps show no price anywhere before signup
We publish only prices displayed on the vendor's own pricing surface. Where a cell says “price not published”, the vendor hides the number until you register — a pattern unique to this category at this scale.
5 of 33
live companion apps have no findable privacy policy on their site
JANITOR.AI, Pephop AI, Talkie, Caveduck, Soulkyn — for products built on intimate conversations, there is no published statement of what happens to your data.
9 of 33
document in-app, self-serve account deletion
Most policies only offer deletion “on request” by contacting support — and several policies do not describe any user deletion path at all.
12 vs 8
apps with an explicit “we don't sell your data” claim vs apps disclosing third-party sharing
The split matters: a written no-sale commitment is enforceable positioning; disclosed sharing with advertising or analytics providers is the opposite signal.
1.9M
email addresses exposed in the documented Muah.AI breach — the category's warning shot
September 2024, catalogued by Have I Been Pwned. Meanwhile HeraHaven's policy states data is retained five years after account erasure. These are the fine-print facts this index exists to surface.
1
DNS-confirmed dead companion apps still recommended in current “best of” lists
If a list still recommends one of these, that tells you how often it verifies anything.
If You Only Read One Section
Best Apps for Every Priority
Selected from the verified data below — not from commissions. Criteria for each pick are stated on the card.
Best Privacy Posture

Verified 2026-07-05 · lovescape.com
Published policy, self-serve deletion and an explicit no-sale commitment — the strongest verified privacy combination in the index.
Best Transparent NSFW App

Verified 2026-07-05 · ourdream.ai
Explicit content clearly permitted, price published before signup ($9.99/mo), and a findable privacy policy — rare candor in this category.
Best Mainstream / SFW

Verified 2026-07-05 · character.ai
A clearly stated no-NSFW policy and major app-store presence — the safe recommendation when adult content isn't the goal.
Best Verified Entry Price

Verified 2026-07-05 · pephop.ai
$4.99/mo displayed publicly before signup — the lowest vendor-verified monthly plan in the index.
Verify Before Trusting
No standalone privacy policy found on site; account deletion documented in Terms (janitorai.com/term)
Legal doc notes some disclosures may constitute a CCPA 'sale'
September 2024 data breach exposed ~1.9M email addresses and prompts (Have I Been Pwned)
The Index
All 33 Verified Companion Apps
Companion and character-chat platforms only. Every cell verified against the vendor's own site or policy on the date shown. “Not in policy” means we read the policy and the answer isn't there; “price not published” means the vendor hides it until signup.
| Tool | Pricing | Free tier | NSFW | Age gate | Privacy policy | Deletion | Data sharing | Verified | Visit |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
EroPlay AIAI girlfriend | Paid$14.99/mo | Limited features and predefined scenarios free | Explicit OK | Present | Published ↗ | Self-serve | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05eroplay.ai | Visit |
LOVESCAPEAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Not stated by vendor | Explicit OK | Present | Published ↗ | Self-serve | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05lovescape.com | Visit |
Character.AIAI girlfriend | Freemium$9.99/mo | Unlimited basic chat free | SFW only | Not verified | Published ↗ | Self-serve | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05character.ai | Visit |
DarLink AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free AI girlfriend generator implied by site title; pricing behind app | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | Self-serve | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05darlink.ai | Visit |
GirlfriendGPTAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free account signup; paid prices not shown pre-signup | Explicit OK | Present | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05gptgirlfriend.online | Visit |
NSFWLoverCharacter chat | Freemiumprice not published | About 100 texts/month free with calls and images, no sign-up (site claims) | Explicit OK | Present | Published ↗ | Not in policy | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05nsfwlover.com | Visit |
OurDream AIAI girlfriend | Freemium$9.99/mo | Minimal free coins then paywall (user-reported) | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | Self-serve | Vague | 2026-07-05ourdream.ai | Visit |
Secrets AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free join with 500+ characters | Explicit OK | Present | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05secrets.ai | Visit |
SpicyChat AICharacter chat | Freemium$5/mo | Free chat with ads and wait queue | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | Self-serve | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05spicychat.ai | Visit |
Candy AIAI girlfriend | Freemium$9.99/mo | 7-day free trial claimed on site; historically limited messages rather than a durable free tier | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | Vague | 2026-07-05candy.ai | Visit |
DreamGFAI girlfriend | Freemium$9.99/mo | Free registration, no card required | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | Vague | 2026-07-05dreamgf.ai | Visit |
FantasyGF.AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | $0 trial claimed on page; no durable free premium | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | Self-serve | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05fantasygf.com | Visit |
Freemiumprice not published | Core platform free with JanitorLLM; own API keys supported | Explicit OK | Not verified | Not found | Self-serve | Not in policy | 2026-07-05janitorai.com | Visit | |
Freemium$15.99/mo | Free trial messages, no card required | Limited | Not verified | Published ↗ | Self-serve | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05kindroid.ai | Visit | |
Kupid AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free signup chat claimed on page | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05kupid.ai | Visit |
Freemiumprice not published | Basic tier free | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05haveibeenpwned.com | Visit | |
MyBabes AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Unlimited free chat and standard image generation (site claims); paid prices only visible in-app | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05mybabes.ai | Visit |
Nastia.AICharacter chat | Freemiumprice not published | Free daily messages, no credit card; paid plan prices not publicly displayed | Explicit OK | Present | Published ↗ | On request | Vague | 2026-07-05nastia.ai | Visit |
Pephop AICharacter chat | Freemium$4.99/mo | Free NSFW chat marketed on homepage | Explicit OK | None seen | Not found | Not in policy | Not in policy | 2026-07-05pephop.ai | Visit |
Yollo AICharacter chat | Free | Markets itself as totally free with no sign-up; no paid price visible | Explicit OK | None seen | Published ↗ | Not in policy | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05yollo.ai | Visit |
Crushon AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free models with unlimited slower chat plus monthly message allowance | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | Not in policy | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05crushon.ai | Visit |
Dream CompanionAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Not stated by vendor | Not stated | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05mydreamcompanion.com | Visit |
Freemiumprice not published | Free chat marketed; NSFW gated behind paid subscription (site claims) | Limited | Present | Published ↗ | Not verified | Not verified | 2026-07-05goloveai.com | Visit | |
HeraHavenAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free signup with limited messages | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | Not in policy | Vague | 2026-07-05herahaven.ai | Visit |
MyLovely AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Not stated by vendor | Explicit OK | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | Vague | 2026-07-05mylovely.ai | Visit |
Nectar AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Not stated by vendor | Not stated | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05trynectar.ai | Visit |
NomiAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free start, no credit card; prices behind login (/pricing 404) | Not stated | None seen | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05nomi.ai | Visit |
PolyBuzzCharacter chat | Freemiumprice not published | Free core chat per official FAQ | Limited | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | No-sale claim | 2026-07-05polybuzz.ai | Visit |
TalkieAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free character chat with free signup | SFW only | None seen | Not found | Not in policy | Not in policy | 2026-07-05talkie-ai.com | Visit |
CaveduckAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Free trial advertised; credit-based paid model, exact prices behind login | Not stated | Not verified | Not found | Not in policy | Not in policy | 2026-07-05caveduck.io | Visit |
Freemiumprice not published | Core AI-friend chat free; Pro pricing not publicly displayed (in-app only) | Not stated | None seen | Published ↗ | On request | Discloses sharing | 2026-07-05replika.com | Visit | |
SoulkynCharacter chat | Freemiumprice not published | Not stated by vendor | Not stated | Not verified | Not found | Not in policy | Not in policy | 2026-07-05soulkyn.example-not-found | Visit |
Yume AIAI girlfriend | Freemiumprice not published | Not stated by vendor | Not stated | Not verified | Published ↗ | On request | Vague | 2026-07-05yumeai.com | Visit |
Pricing Transparency
What Honest Pricing Looks Like
Only 8 of 32 paid apps display a price before signup. Verified monthly entry plans span $4.99–$15.99 — same category, triple the price, and the difference is rarely visible until after you've registered.
$4.99/mo
Pephop AI
$5/mo
SpicyChat AI
$9.99/mo
Character.AI
$9.99/mo
OurDream AI
$9.99/mo
Candy AI
$9.99/mo
DreamGF
$14.99/mo
EroPlay AI
$15.99/mo
Kindroid
Vendor-displayed prices only, captured 2026-07-05. Apps missing here either have no paid tier or do not publish one — reported third-party prices are deliberately excluded.
Privacy & Safety Patterns
Privacy Disclosures, Compared
Explicit No-Sale Commitments (12)
LOVESCAPE · DarLink AI · GirlfriendGPT · NSFWLover · Secrets AI · Kupid AI · Muah.AI · MyBabes AI · Dream Companion · Nectar AI · Nomi · PolyBuzz
No Findable Privacy Policy (5)
JANITOR.AI · Pephop AI · Talkie · Caveduck · Soulkyn — checked via standard policy paths, site footers and sitemaps on 2026-07-05.
Fine-Print Standouts
- NSFWLover: Uploaded content deleted after processing (site claims)
- Secrets AI: Retained while account is active
- Candy AI: Retention to 1 year after last account activity or until deletion request
- JANITOR.AI: No standalone privacy policy found on site; account deletion documented in Terms (janitorai.com/term)
- Kindroid: Legal doc notes some disclosures may constitute a CCPA 'sale'
The Graveyard
Dead Apps Still Being Recommended
DNS-verified shutdowns that continue to appear in current “best of” lists elsewhere. Their residual demand has somewhere better to go.
| Tool | Status | Where its users went |
|---|---|---|
| Confirmed down | Best alternatives → |
How We Verified
Methodology & Scoring
Facts are verified against official product pages, pricing screens and published policies — not against other review sites. Where a fact is only reported second-hand (for example a price that sits behind a login wall), it is excluded from this table rather than published as if verified.
"Unknown" is an honest answer, not a gap to fill: if a vendor does not publicly state a policy or price, we say so. Prices shown here are the cheapest the vendor displayed publicly on the verification date; promotional and regional pricing may differ.
The index is editorially independent. Placement is alphabetical within status groups, rankings are not sold, and affiliate relationships never change a verified fact — consistent with our published ranking methodology.
Verification cadence: monthly for the tracked set, with re-checks whenever a shutdown, rebrand or pricing change is reported. The verified set expands as new checks complete; the full directory tracks a wider catalogue than the verified table below.
| Label | Means |
|---|---|
| Strong | Fact verified on the vendor's own page or policy with a clear, specific statement |
| Partial | Addressed, but hedged, request-based, or missing specifics |
| Weak | The opposite signal is present (e.g. no age gate on an adult app) |
| Not publicly disclosed | We looked — standard paths, footers, sitemaps, policy text — and the answer is not published |
Keep Comparing

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The full companion category, scored and ordered

AI Companion Apps Guide
Long-form testing notes behind this index

Build Your Own AI Girlfriend
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OurDream AI Review
Our transparent-NSFW pick, tested in depth

Head-to-Head Comparisons
Every verified app, matched pair by pair
Index FAQ
Verified means we checked the fact directly against the vendor's official product page, pricing page, account-access information or published policy on the date shown in the row. A review-site price, a Reddit comment, a marketing screenshot or a user report can help us decide what to inspect, but it does not become an index fact unless we can re-find it on an official source.
That standard matters in AI companion apps because the category changes quickly. Pricing pages move behind signup walls, free tiers shrink, NSFW rules change, apps rebrand and some products disappear while old listicles keep recommending them. If a fact is not publicly reproducible, we leave the cell as not published or not publicly disclosed instead of laundering a guess into the table.
Because we looked and the answer is not published. "Not in policy" means the vendor has a policy, but the specific fact we were checking is not documented there. "Price not published" means we could not find a public pre-signup price on the vendor's own pages. We label the absence precisely rather than filling the gap with a third-party estimate.
The absence is still useful information. If an intimate companion app does not publish deletion details, retention language, data-sharing posture or a price before signup, the user has less leverage before handing over conversations, images, payment details or account data. The label is not a moral judgment; it is a transparency signal.
No. The row is based on the same structured facts whether a tool has an affiliate relationship with AI Haven or not. A partner does not get a stronger privacy score for hiding pricing, and a non-partner still gets credit for a clear policy, a self-serve deletion path or a public no-sale claim.
Affiliate links can affect how AI Haven earns money from outbound clicks, but they do not change the verified fields, the scoring labels or the evidence standard. The index is designed so the important claims can be checked against the vendor's own public surfaces rather than taken on trust.
The verified set is re-checked monthly, and sooner when a shutdown, rebrand, pricing change, privacy-policy change, NSFW-policy change or age-gate change is reported. Every row shows its own last-verified date because freshness matters more at the row level than at the page level.
Use the date as part of the decision. A recent verification is stronger than an old one, but no directory can guarantee that a vendor did not change a checkout, policy or moderation rule after the last pass. For any tool you are about to pay for, the safest workflow is to use this index as the shortlist filter, then confirm the live vendor page before subscribing.
They are two of the clearest public signals in a category built around intimate chat, fantasy roleplay and sometimes explicit media. An age gate does not prove a product is safe or compliant, but it does show whether an adult-positioned app takes any visible step to keep minors out before use. No visible age gate is a weak signal because it leaves more of the burden on the user.
NSFW policy clarity matters for a different reason: users should know whether explicit content is actually permitted before they create an account or pay. Some apps imply adult use in ads while keeping policy language vague; others clearly allow, limit or prohibit explicit content. The index separates those states so expectations are set by published rules, not by vibes.
Each label is a coarse, verifiable judgment — not a fake-precision score. Strong means the fact is clearly stated on the vendor's own page or policy. Partial means the topic is addressed but hedged, conditional, request-based or not specific enough to count as a clean disclosure. Weak means the opposite signal is present, such as no visible age gate on an adult-positioned app. Not publicly disclosed means we checked standard paths, footers, sitemaps, pricing surfaces and policy text, and the answer was not published.
The labels are meant to make comparison fast without pretending there is a mathematically exact privacy score. A Strong label usually means the user can compare that fact confidently. A Partial label means read the policy before relying on it. Weak and Not publicly disclosed are caution labels: they do not automatically make a tool unusable, but they do mean the vendor is giving you less clarity before signup.
Start with the facts that are hardest to unwind later: public pricing, cancellation path, account deletion, privacy policy, data sharing, chat or media retention, NSFW policy and age gate. A polished companion demo is not enough if the vendor hides the recurring price, does not explain deletion, or gives no public answer about how intimate data is handled.
A practical workflow is to test the free tier with low-risk prompts first, then check the row for anything marked Weak, Not publicly disclosed or price not published. If you plan to upload images, use voice, buy credits or maintain long-running roleplay history, the privacy and deletion fields matter more than a generic star rating.
Because stale recommendations are a real problem in this market. Companion apps can shut down, rebrand, change domains, remove public pricing or leave users searching for a product that no longer works. Keeping dead or caution-marked rows visible helps users understand why an old recommendation may be risky or outdated.
Breach and retention notes are included for the same reason: they are decision-grade context, not trivia. If a companion app has a documented breach, unusually long retention language, no public policy or no published price, that does not always answer whether the app is good at chat. It does answer whether the user should slow down before trusting it with intimate data.